The Traditional Wedding

Saturday, October 18th 2025 · Lekki, Lagos, Nigeria

Please join us as we celebrate our traditional Yorùbá wedding in Nigeria.

Event Schedule

While there are no official events before Wednesday, October 15th 2025 or after Sunday, October 19th 2025, the bride and groom would love to spend time with you if you’re in Lagos before or after these days! Whether it’s exploring the city, grabbing a meal, or just catching up, we’d be thrilled to connect and make the most of your time here.

Arrivals

Murtala Muhammed International Airport
Ikeja, Lagos, Nigeria

Once you have purchased your plane ticket (approx. $1,200 from SFO to LOS), please update the Guests Arrivals & Departures Google Sheet. This will allow us to arrange a Protocol Officer to assist you with customs, gathering any checked luggage and connecting you with your pre-assigned driver. For easier coordination, we recommend choosing flights with other guests whenever possible. The shared document can help you find overlapping travel times.

All U.S. citizens are required to obtain a visa and specific vaccines to enter Nigeria. For more details refer to the “Travel Requirements” and “Arrival & Transportation” sections of the FAQs.

Wednesday, October 15th 2025 TBD to TBD PM Venue TBD
Victoria Island, Lagos, Nigeria

Welcome Meal

The Welcome Meal is our chance to greet you, celebrate your arrival, and enjoy some quality time together before the traditional wedding. Expect delicious food, drinks, great company, and a warm atmosphere to set the tone for the festivities ahead. This meal will either be lunch or dinner based on the arrival times of guests.

Dress code: Semi-formal

Group Activity

Thursday, October 16th 2025 TBD to TBD PM Venue TBD
Victoria Island, Lagos, Nigeria

Lagos is a vibrant, bustling city and there are plenty of activities to choose from. We will curate an appropriate activity based on RSVPs and we will send out information regarding this activity at a later date.

Looking for additional activities for your stay? Refer to the “Leisure & Activities” and “Dining & Drinks” sections of the FAQs.

Dress code: TBD

Saturday, October 18th 2025 4:00 PM to 9:30 PM The Civic Centre
Victoria Island, Lagos, Nigeria

Traditional Wedding

Get ready to experience the vibrancy and elegance of a Yorùbá traditional wedding! This beautiful ceremony, known as the Engagement Ceremony or Ìgbéyàwó Alárùbá, is a celebration of love, culture, and family.

The day begins with the Introduction, where the families formally meet and solidify the union. Expect coordinated traditional outfits (Aso-Ebí), heartfelt prayers, and joyous music as we honor the traditions passed down through generations.

Dress code: Traditional wedding clothing. Send your measurements and preferred style for dresses to itsgoingdownyall@gmail.com. Venmo $125 for men and $150 for women to @roasbeef

After Party

Saturday, October 18th 2025 10:00 PM to 2 AM The Civic Centre
Victoria Island, Lagos, Nigeria

The celebration doesn’t stop when the traditional wedding ends! We’ll transition to the After Party at The Five Palm Oniru for an unforgettable After Party to keep the good vibes, music, and dancing going.

Dress code: You’ll still be wearing your Aso-Ebí but you can bring clothes to change into club wear, think Miami or Las Vegas vibes.

Sunday, October 19th 2025 2 to 4 PM Venue TBD
Victoria Island, Lagos, Nigeria

Farewell Lunch

The Farewell Lunch is a laid-back, late-afternoon gathering (perfect for those who may need a little extra sleep after a fun night out). It’s our chance to thank you for celebrating with us and to bid you farewell. Enjoy a warm atmosphere, delicious food, and heartfelt moments as we wrap up this unforgettable journey together.

Dress code: Casual

 FAQs

We’ve gathered some common questions to help make your trip and celebration as seamless as possible. If there’s anything we missed, don’t hesitate to reach out—we’re here to help!