The Traditional Wedding

Saturday, October 11th 2025 · Lekki, Lagos, Nigeria

Please join us as we celebrate our traditional Yoruba wedding in Nigeria.

Event Schedule

While there are no official events before Wednesday, October 8th or after Sunday, October 11th, the bride and groom would love to spend time with you if you’re in Lagos during these days! Whether it’s exploring the city, grabbing a meal, or just catching up, we’d be thrilled to connect and make the most of your time here.

Arrivals

Murtala Muhammed International Airport
Ikeja, Lagos, Nigeria

Once you have purchased your plane ticket (approx. $1,200 from SFO to LOS), please update the Guests Arrivals & Departures Google Sheet. This will allow us to arrange a Protocol Officer to assist you with customs, gathering any checked luggage and connecting you with your pre-assigned driver. For easier coordination, we recommend choosing flights with other guests whenever possible. The shared document can help you find overlapping travel times.

All U.S. citizens are required to obtain a visa and specific vaccines to enter Nigeria. For more details refer to the “Travel Requirements” and “Arrival & Transportation” sections of the FAQs.

Wednesday, October 8th 2025 at TBD PM Venue TBD
Victoria Island, Lagos, Nigeria

Welcome Meal

The Welcome Meal is our chance to greet you, celebrate your arrival, and enjoy some quality time together before the traditional wedding. Expect delicious food, drinks, great company, and a warm atmosphere to set the tone for the festivities ahead. This meal will either be lunch or dinner based on the arrival times of guests.

Dress code: Semi-formal

Group Activity

Thursday, October 9th 2025 at TBD PM Venue TBD
Lagos, Nigeria

Lagos is a vibrant, bustling city and there are plenty of activities to choose from. We will curate an appropriate activity based on RSVPs and we will send out information regarding this activity at a later date.

Looking for additional activities for your stay? Refer to the FAQs below.

Dress code: TBD

Saturday, October 11th 2025 at TBD PM The Five Palm Oniru
Lekki, Lagos, Nigeria

Traditional Wedding

Get ready to experience the vibrancy and elegance of a Yoruba traditional wedding! This beautiful ceremony, known as the Engagement Ceremony or Ìgbéyàwó Alárùbá, is a celebration of love, culture, and family.

The day begins with the Introduction, where the families formally meet and solidify the union. Expect coordinated traditional outfits (Aso-Ebí), heartfelt prayers, and joyous music as we honor the traditions passed down through generations.

Dress code: The bride and groom will provide traditional wedding clothing. We’ll reach out at a later date for your measurements.

After Party

Saturday, October 11th 2025 at TBD PM Venue TBD
Lekki, Lagos, Nigeria

The celebration doesn’t stop when the traditional wedding ends! Join us for an unforgettable After Party to keep the good vibes, music, and dancing going. Come experience Lagosian nightlife at its finest! From the vibrant beats of Afrobeat to the pulsating energy of the city, you’ll see why Lagos is known as the heartbeat of Nigeria.

Dress code: Club wear, think Miami or Las Vegas vibes

Thursday, October 9th 2025 at TBD PM Venue TBD
Lagos, Nigeria

Departure Meal

The Departure Meal is a relaxed and heartfelt gathering, offering us the chance to thank you for celebrating with us and bid you farewell. Expect a warm atmosphere, delicious food, and lots of love as we wrap up this incredible journey together.

We hope this final moment together leaves you with lasting memories and a full heart. Safe travels, and thank you for being part of our special day!

Dress code: Casual

 FAQs

We’ve gathered some common questions to help make your trip and celebration as seamless as possible. If there’s anything we missed, don’t hesitate to reach out—we’re here to help!

  • Do I need a visa to travel to Nigeria?
    Yes, all travelers to Nigeria require a visa. We recommend applying for a visa through the Nigerian embassy or consulate in the U.S. Alternatively, you can use the eVisa on Arrival process. We’ll assist with this by providing necessary documents, and a Protocol Officer will be available to help at the airport.

    Do I need any vaccinations to travel to Nigeria?
    Yes, a Yellow Fever vaccination is mandatory for entry into Nigeria. Bring your Yellow Fever vaccination card as proof. We also recommend consulting your doctor about additional travel vaccines or health precautions, such as malaria prevention.

    How much are flights to Nigeria?
    Round-trip flights from major U.S. cities (e.g., SFO, JFK, ATL) to Lagos (LOS) typically cost around $1,200. Prices can vary, so book early for the best rates.

  • How do I get from the airport to my accommodation?
    Once you’ve updated your flight details in theGuests Arrivals & Departures Google Sheet, we’ll arrange transportation for you. A Protocol Officer will also assist you through visa processing and baggage claim at the airport.

    What is the best time to arrive?
    We recommend arriving during the day for a smoother travel experience, as it’s easier to navigate the airport and transportation during daylight hours. Coordinating your arrival with other guests is also ideal to streamline logistics. Check the shared Google Sheet for flight overlaps.

    How will I get around for the duration of my trip?
    We will be providing transportation to and from all planned events. We will have private drivers on standby for events outside of planned events for those who want to explore Lagos

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  • Where should I stay?
    We’ve secured room blocks at [Insert hotel name(s)] for your convenience. Details, including rates and booking links, will be shared closer to the event.

    Are accommodations included in the wedding itinerary?
    Accommodations are not included, but we’ll provide a list of recommended hotels near the wedding venue to make planning easier.

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    • Malaria pills (You can get your prescription from a travel clinic and use your health insurance to purc

  • Lagos boasts a vibrant and diverse food scene, offering everything from traditional Nigerian dishes like suya and jollof rice to international cuisines served in world-class restaurants

    • Lekki Conservation Center: Visit Africa’s longest canopy walk and see wildlife for ₦ 3,000 (~$2). If heights aren’t your thing you can skip the canopy and just enjoy the surrounding park area.

    • Markets: Lagos is famous for its bustling markets, but we don’t recommend visiting one as a tourist without a plan. If you’re interested in exploring a market, please let us know—we’d be happy to accompany you!

    • Nike Art gallery: Gallery with multiple floors filled to the brim of Nigerian art. There are ad hoc painting classes for ₦ 10,000 (~$5.50) and live drumming. .For jewelry lovers you can find unique pieces here.

    • Terra kulture: Art centre that puts on art exhibitions, plays and book readings throughout the year.

    • Tix Africa: Similar to Eventbrite. We’ve used this site heavily to find different shows and events in Lagos.

    • Quintessence: Recommend this store if you’re looking for souvenirs such as clothing, jewelry, etc from artists throughout Africa.

  • How should I convert my dollars?
    Nigeria uses the Naira (₦). ATMs are available though they sometimes run out of money. The bride and groom will coordinate for guests to convert their USD. You do not need to do so at the airport.

    Can I use my credit or debit card?
    Credit cards are not commonly used in Nigeria. It is common to pay for things via bank transfer. You can set this up prior to the trip by downloading Sendwave and/or Taptap Send from your app stores and connecting your debit card to your account. We recommend downloading both apps as they cover different banks.

  • Will my phone work in Nigeria?
    Check with your service provider about international plans. T Mobile has seamless international plans. For non-iPhone users, Google Fi is a great option. Alternatively, you can purchase a local SIM card on arrival for data and calls. If you are going the local SIM card route, please contact us at itsgoingdownyall@gmail.com and we will assist with setting you up.

    How should I reach people?
    We highly recommend downloading WhatsApp. This will be how you communicate with us or any coordinators once in Lagos. We will also create a group chat with all guests traveling into Lagos at a later date.

  • Nigeria is a long way to travel solo or without your children! Traditional weddings are very family and community focused. Please bring your children or additional loved one to make the journey with. For plus ones, send their first and last name + email address to itsgoingdownyall@gmail.com so they can be added to the guest list.

  • We’ll miss you and completely understand that Nigeria is a long way to travel!

    In Yoruba culture, there’s a traditional wedding followed by the white wedding (similar to what’s often referred to as a wedding in American culture). We’re excited to share that we’ll also be hosting a white wedding ceremony in the Bay Area (date TBD). We’ll reach out once the details are confirmed, and we can’t wait to celebrate with you then!